Guide · Dependencies

How to follow up when another team is blocking you.

You need an API, a design, a review or access from someone else, and it isn't coming. Following up feels awkward, so most people wait too long, then get asked at standup why their work is late. These messages are polite, specific and easy to say yes to.

Before the first message

The first ask (day 0)

Hi Ana! We're building the search screen for 2.4 and need the search endpoint's request/response shape. Could you share it by Thursday? A rough draft is fine; ticket: APP-142. Thank you!

The first nudge (day 2)

Short, friendly, and it assumes they're busy, not ignoring you.

Hi Ana, bumping this in case it got buried: the search endpoint shape for APP-142. Even a rough draft would unblock us. Happy to jump on a quick call if that's easier.

The second nudge (day 4 or 5)

Add the cost of waiting, and offer to do the work yourself.

Hi Ana, following up on APP-142 again. Without the search shape we'll miss Thursday's 2.4 cut and search slips to 2.5. If it helps, I can write a draft contract from the existing filters endpoint for you to correct. Would that work?

Escalating (day 7 or later)

Escalate to a shared channel or a lead, not over someone's head in private. Stick to facts, with no blame, and ask for help finding an owner.

Hi team, we're blocked on the search API contract (APP-142) for the 2.4 release. I asked Ana on the 3rd, 5th and 8th; I know Platform is stretched. Could someone help us find an owner, or tell us if we should plan search for 2.5 instead?

In standup

Blockers: • Search API contract — waiting on Platform (day 6, asked 3×). Can someone help me find the right owner?

"Day 6, asked 3×" does two things. It tells your team this isn't new, and it shows you've done your part. A slow dependency is a team problem, not your problem.

Keep receipts

The hardest part isn't writing the message. It's remembering when you asked, how, and how many times, a week later when someone asks why it's late. Write it down every time you chase someone: the date, the person, and where you asked (Slack, email, a ticket, a call, standup).


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